Showing posts with label It's a FIFO Lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label It's a FIFO Lifestyle. Show all posts

be prepared for some sarcasm

Ive been a bit MIA this past week, so heres a quick catch-up........
a few days after Nooshies actual birthday, husbandito arrived home for his brake from work, which we all were looking forward too.
unfortunately it wasn't the fun fun fun filled week we had hoped for. between feeling completely run down, having a few girly issues and getting an ear infection, which may or may not have something to do the the huge glands i am sporting at the moment, I was a barrel of laughs and fun as you can imagine.  
all i've wanted to do this last week is curl up in bed and sleep, but how does one do that when you have a 1 year old trying to walk and needing constant entertaining, research colours and the like for a new house that should be getting built soon, and socialise while your hubby is home??? well you cut the socialising bit completely out, who needs to socialise anyway hey???
then you just run yourself down even more by still going to playgroup so nooshie isn't missing out on her socialising, so by the time your hubby is about to get on the plane to go back to work, your in tears! 
yes that right, thats what happened this morning. husbandito is all set to head back to W.A, and I was a mess, feeling like death warmed up crying to him in the bathroom, and apologising that his time off wasn't so much fun. of course he doesn't really care that it wasn't 'fun' he was just happy to be home with his girls, yet i still managed to feel guilty about being sick and not more perky.  
to top off this fantastic morning we are having nooshie monster decided that after we got back from the airport that she would spend the next 2 and a half hours crying. oh joy of joy.
anyway thats enough waaahhh waaahhh poor me. 



here's some pix of what we did get up to while noohies daddy was home.

waiting at the airport of daddy to get off the plane
nice weather for a bbq
hanging out in our pretend home...looking at displays for colour inspiration 
a ride at the shops with humpty dumpty.







FIFO

In August last year husbandito and I decided we would take the plunge and try our luck at becoming a Fly In Fly Out (FIFO) family.
Now lets go right back to the start....... I must admit when we first got together over 4 years ago and he told me that it was his dream to work in a mine in the middle of nowhere, I was a little like 'yeah right that will never happen on my watch' about the whole thing....ok ok i was a lot like that!  But after 4 years of hearing about it, and weight up the hundreds of pro's next the hundreds of con's I finally one day cracked. It was not long after husbandito had had ankle surgery and was on light duties at his work, hating life, and complaining about wanting more from his job, and more for our financial security. Our conversation went something a long the lines like this.
HUSBAND: blah blah blah I wish I could go and work in the mines and make better money blah blah
ME: GOD shut up about it and do something about it then and apply for some jobs.
And just like that ours lives changed!...Within a week for him putting a profile up on seek, he had over 10 calls of interest and 3 job offers...and 4 weeks later we were having a very teary and emotional farewell at the airport.    
4 months on, I can really see it has been one of the greatest decisions we have made for our family, and so far it is going really well. I'm not going to tell you all that it easy and wonderful, because it is dam hard at times. But it is definitely going to be worthwhile for us in long run.  We spend 2 weeks apart and then a week together. We have many phone calls and Skype chats while he is away, and towards the end of his swing (shift) there is usually some tears from me and a few 'i can't wait for you to be able to change her nappy' comments thrown into our conversations.  At the moment he has taken a whole swing off which means we get to have a whole month off together...which is just bliss.
It's still early days for us in our FIFO life, and i guess time will tell just how great it all really is.


 
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